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	<title>Comments on: &#8220;Attached to Outcome&#8221;</title>
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		<title>By: Eleanor Justice</title>
		<link>http://www.lifestudent.com/hub/2010/03/10/attached-to-outcome/comment-page-1/#comment-3259</link>
		<dc:creator>Eleanor Justice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 14:34:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing this! It reminded me of a quote I love -- &quot;A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery  on a detour&quot; 

A jillion years ago I used to work a regular job that had a vicious commute in the DC area (read: really, really, really, really horrible grumpy traffic), and would spend a lot of time in traffic, often running behind. I forget what day it happened, but I had this pleasant little internal shift and I found myself mesmerized by the tops of the trees in the wind. They were so exquisitely beautiful, and their movement was *so* soothing. That lead to actually watching clouds, and being delighted with how the edges of the clouds are in a constant state of transformation as they encountered the sky, and all the &quot;oooo, deep!&quot; kinds of thoughts that triggered, and vague thoughts about how so many people were sharing an experience but so few of us were probably realizing it, and so forth. Since then, unless I&#039;m really out of whack about something, I&#039;ve had a pretty easy time of just loosening up and staying in the flow (even if the flow is going on in molassas-like traffic.) 

Traffic is also a *superb* time to do breathwork and grounding exercises -- especially if one happens to be occasionally forgetful, and forges a mental link between the two. :)

Anyhoo -- thanks again for the post, it was a treat to stumble back across your stuff!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing this! It reminded me of a quote I love &#8212; &#8220;A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery  on a detour&#8221; </p>
<p>A jillion years ago I used to work a regular job that had a vicious commute in the DC area (read: really, really, really, really horrible grumpy traffic), and would spend a lot of time in traffic, often running behind. I forget what day it happened, but I had this pleasant little internal shift and I found myself mesmerized by the tops of the trees in the wind. They were so exquisitely beautiful, and their movement was *so* soothing. That lead to actually watching clouds, and being delighted with how the edges of the clouds are in a constant state of transformation as they encountered the sky, and all the &#8220;oooo, deep!&#8221; kinds of thoughts that triggered, and vague thoughts about how so many people were sharing an experience but so few of us were probably realizing it, and so forth. Since then, unless I&#8217;m really out of whack about something, I&#8217;ve had a pretty easy time of just loosening up and staying in the flow (even if the flow is going on in molassas-like traffic.) </p>
<p>Traffic is also a *superb* time to do breathwork and grounding exercises &#8212; especially if one happens to be occasionally forgetful, and forges a mental link between the two. <img src='http://www.lifestudent.com/hub/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Anyhoo &#8212; thanks again for the post, it was a treat to stumble back across your stuff!</p>
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		<title>By: Halcyon</title>
		<link>http://www.lifestudent.com/hub/2010/03/10/attached-to-outcome/comment-page-1/#comment-3257</link>
		<dc:creator>Halcyon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 03:07:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;It&#039;s hard for me to remember, too. I need daily reminders. :)&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s hard for me to remember, too. I need daily reminders. <img src='http://www.lifestudent.com/hub/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: oh2panama</title>
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		<dc:creator>oh2panama</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 02:59:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Why is it always so hard for me to remember your wisdom
I am in a totally differnt sit, but I still get pissed when things do not comply with my expectations.
I &quot;do&quot; however hear your voice sometimes which says &quot;You are angry becuase you are afraid&quot;
then I think of what it is I am afraid of
So I guess, you are sinking in that darn heap of mud I call a brain
thanks John</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why is it always so hard for me to remember your wisdom<br />
I am in a totally differnt sit, but I still get pissed when things do not comply with my expectations.<br />
I &#8220;do&#8221; however hear your voice sometimes which says &#8220;You are angry becuase you are afraid&#8221;<br />
then I think of what it is I am afraid of<br />
So I guess, you are sinking in that darn heap of mud I call a brain<br />
thanks John</p>
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		<title>By: Megan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Megan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 16:28:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really appreciate you sharing this.  I am going through a big transition time in my life and need to shift my thinking to allow more love and happiness into my life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really appreciate you sharing this.  I am going through a big transition time in my life and need to shift my thinking to allow more love and happiness into my life.</p>
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		<title>By: Colleen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Colleen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 12:52:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John, thanks for the &quot;comment&quot;!  I thought the traffic jam was a  great analogy to use to make it easy to understand.  As I read, I thought, yes, I struggle with this. Sometimes it seems that the ways in which we can hurt ourselves, block ourselves and be our own worst enemy are many, and the ways in which we can help ourself, heal ourself are so few but so profound.  This is one of them.  It felt good to read this. Peace.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, thanks for the &#8220;comment&#8221;!  I thought the traffic jam was a  great analogy to use to make it easy to understand.  As I read, I thought, yes, I struggle with this. Sometimes it seems that the ways in which we can hurt ourselves, block ourselves and be our own worst enemy are many, and the ways in which we can help ourself, heal ourself are so few but so profound.  This is one of them.  It felt good to read this. Peace.</p>
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		<title>By: Halcyon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Halcyon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 02:16:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Yay for Spring!! (my favorite time of year.)&#160; Good luck with the shift. ((HUG))&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yay for Spring!! (my favorite time of year.)&nbsp; Good luck with the shift. ((HUG))</p>
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		<title>By: Jocelyne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jocelyne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 01:46:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m going through a pretty big shift in my life right now and this is something I have been thinking about a lot.  Breaking up is always hard even if you are still best friends.  Just believing that there is a bright light on the other side gives me joy among all the feelings of loss and sadness.  Excitement for the unknown and not having any expectations is so much fun and something to look forward to.  After all it is spring and time for a new start!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m going through a pretty big shift in my life right now and this is something I have been thinking about a lot.  Breaking up is always hard even if you are still best friends.  Just believing that there is a bright light on the other side gives me joy among all the feelings of loss and sadness.  Excitement for the unknown and not having any expectations is so much fun and something to look forward to.  After all it is spring and time for a new start!</p>
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